Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

So, before I left work last night I wrote out how I planned to carry out the conversation up to and including responses to hypothetical answers W may give in order to not say something that would seem negative.

Well, all W wanted to do was fight as soon as the Thanksgiving schedule was ironed out (with attitude on her behalf). Immediately there after she went into 'fight mode' of which I endured for a few minutes then when there was no end in sight to her rants so I said 'we've covered the holiday matter and there's no need to continue this, goodbye' and hung up.

We had "agreed" that she will have them the 2 weekends since I have plans to work on the house this weekend and the less bodies roaming around the better.

A few minutes later she calls again, I decline. She leaves a VM to please call her because there's a problem with the agreement. So, left with no choice but to call her, I do. She says I need to have them tonight (Friday). I said no, I told you I will be working. She immediately goes into screaming again because she had 'party plans' for tonight. I told her I'm sorry, but this was my weekend off so I made plans, you'll have to just have to deal with it, goodnight, and hung up (really biting my tongue on the fact that this is YOUR time to see YOUR kids, and all you want to do is party, WTF?).

She calls a few more times, I decline. Then she starts with the evil texts, to which I just read, chuckled and ignored.

She sends another message this morning begging and pleading that they stay with me tonight. No reply, want to say that is't time to be a parent, not the party girl.

Oh, and she's supossidly "calling her lawyer this morning". That's pretty funny, she can't give me the decency of getting her own health insurance while she's banging someone else because "she can't afford it", but yet can aford a lawyer all the sudden? B/S.

So, I'm just going to let her sweat it out for a bit. Stay dark, and unless it's an emergency with the kids, ignore her calls and messages for the time being while I get work done on the house and myself.