I like your attitude now. Your marriage problems are not your fault just as I still feel about mine. It actually feels pretty good to let them go on their own and not worry about them. Focus on the kids as that is what really matters.
Who knows what will change Dan's demeanor towards life and if it ever will change. It may be that he has some severe manic disorder that can only be treated with medication. As Woog keeps saying, until Dan sees an IC and gets some professional help, the only thing that might pull his head out of his ass is some dramatic life changing event.
