Sorry pushing the envelope did not go as expected, the positive is that it didn't go over badly either.
Listen I personally think Ali is looking at more than there actually is in your situation. I too was concerned when I heard the pet names but since you say that these are pet names that you guys have always had then that is as far as we can take it because no one knows your situation better than yourself.
The situation of hair tugging and nose wiggling, I personally see nothing wrong with this as I know I play around with my own H like this also!!! Please do not listen to her about the OW, there has been not indication of an OW and from what you have been saying you are accountable for H's whereabouts a large majority of the time, there are no secret phone calls or such to put the idea in your head so there is no reason to add assumptions.
I'm sorry Ali as I know from your posts here that you were blindsighted by an A but that does not have to be the case in everyones situation. ITH does not have to have us whispering negatives in her ear when there are no signs or reasons now.
ITH - you have been really strong lately and I think you are going a good job, the only thing I really think you need to focus on more is YOU and to stop analyzing everything!!!
