I was just in the music teacher's classroom to help supervise concert practice...she has a ton of inspirational messages on her back wall....
one that stuck out to me was short and sweet, it said
"If I didn't cause it, I can't control it, and I can't cure it"
That sums up my situation pretty well...I am past the point of "what we both did to get here". We "Got Here" at least a year ago, and I have been trying to grow/learn/change ever since. At this point, his unhappiness is a result of his choices not my actions....I need to remember that.
And thanks for the 2 x 4s yesterday about me being awesome...that always helps!