First off, list 2 or 3 things you are hoping to change or improve about your marriage. The questions below might help you figure this out!
Goal Setting Rule #1 -
"Think about what you want, not what's missing"
What parts of your relationship do you want more of?
What are the times in your marriage that you'd like to "re-create"?
What are some new things that you'd like to see happen?
"When my spouse stops doing ___________, what will s/he be doing?"
I'd like my husband to call me every other day.
I'd like him to take more baby steps towards moving in with me.
That might include:
Telling his father that he's moving in with me.
Telling any/all his brothers.
Discussing budget with me to figure out how much we can afford to pay in rent.
Looking over available places to rent and telling me about it.
Giving his roomates notice.
Going on job interviews. (no calls yet!)
