Fighting the forclosure of my home, I am blessed to have angels in my life that have stepped in, and helped me with that.
I use the court ordered money he gives me for the house, but that has stopped since Sept.
He told me not to rely on him, for me to get another job and for me to take care of it.
In the mean time, I told him he could come see the kids every day and pick them up from school so that my 80 year old dad can have a break, and he could see the kids, the kids would love that. He could start homework with them, get to know their routine.
He said nothing
i said well do you wanna take over our sons Basketball stuff. you can take him to practices volunteer coach, he replied
I can go to a a few of the games.
Soooo that is that. He seems fine and as happy as ever.
I am looking for that 2nd job, and getting a better first job, which kills me b/c I have been at my current place for over 10 years. It is complicated why I can't advance here. But all in all. I will do what ever it takes, to get my children and I in a better situation without his court appointed help.
Child support services knows he is unemployed and keep tabs with me.
All I can do, Thanks for asking lovey. Hope all is wonderful wth you and those babies. HUGS. Have wonderful holidays!
Lissett
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