Thanks so much for the advice. I returned home last night after a week away on business enthusiastic about being more appreciative, patient, and thoughtful. I had just read my DB and relationship books straight through on my 7 hours in the air and I was ready to go.

After my reception home, my bubble is burst again. He has no interest in my homecoming at all. It sucks to be tolerated by the person who signed on to be committed to me forever. But you guys already know this and then some I'm sure.

I've said it before, but I think I'm over this now. I feel like I'm at the point where I'm looking to learn from the lessons of all this and move on.


Married - 19 years
Noticed Problem - Aug 2008
THE Conversation - Oct 2008

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.