I understand the troubles of being "hornery". I don't know if it is better or worse to have the object of your affection under the same roof and sometimes even in the same bed....I think it is almost worse...
Actually I didn't know if ornery was just a midwest, hick/hillbilly word....
I am thinking I need to get back into pilates, I need to keep up my flexibility in case the opportunity presents itself...
I love that picture but I like to think that I am a little more attractive....not that there is anything wrong with ....George. BTW, I hope my posts did not allude to sexual "prowess". If there is one thing I can not stomach is a person that toots their own horn. Although if I sign up for that yoga / pilates class maybe I will be able to toot my own.......oh never mind.
Hey BBJ with all this flexibility talk, you are really making me hornery :-)
This ugly dude is going to pickup D7 soon. I missed her more than usual this week. I have to admit I also missed W....but that is another story. I wonder if I actually miss my W or the whole package. Anyhow, I plan to spend my weekend showering the people I love with love and showing them the way that I feel....sorry James (Taylor).
ok...where do i begin...what was supposed to be an uneventful evening.... D7 gets in the car and we drive off (W looked tired and she shared some work stuff with me....not very interested).
D7 immediatelly starts talking about the new boyfriend...we will call him AH (add ss ole).
D7 explains to me that she slept in her room because AH slept in mommie's bed. I acted as if...D7 then satrts to weep because she wants mommy and daddy to get back together....all this while I am driving down the highway.
Anyhow, i calmed her down as best i could and now she is playing with her Wii (birthday gift). Ok so her birthday is on the 27th. At least her mind is off other things for now. i am a little ticked at nmy W...she should know better...losing more and more respect for her every day. what an idiot! i will have to bring this up calmly when i have a chance.
W called this morning at 7:30 to talk to D7. She was sleeping and I asked her to call later. I held off as much as I could while she spoke about the internet bill at our old house. Finally, I let her have it regarding her recent actions and more specifically how they are affecting my D7. She usually has no trouble holding up her end of the conversation but this time around and for the first time in a long time she did not get in many words. As far as I am concerned, there is no defence. My D7 is not an adult and don't treat her like one especially when it comes to things of the heart. XW can do what she wants during weekends when D7 is not there but when she is, XW should act like an adult and think a little. Anyhow, I am still steaming You want to introduce a new boyfriend to your daughter...you know what...although I think it is too soon...I can go with that. BUT to have him sleep in the same room and the same bed as mom and dad and D7 used to is more than i can stomach. Come to think of it if D7 did not have her reaction last night, maybe it would not have even bothered me. One thing is sure though and this I told my XW in no uncertain terms. Grieving time and protecting her time is over for me...she is making choices to move forward...it is now time for her to get me my share of the money for the house or put it up for sale....END OF STORY....no more Mr. Nice Guy.
Hey John, sorry for this crap. You have every right to be upset and mad at your wife. Not because of the AH. IMO as long as you make it clear to your W this isnt about her,this is only about your D and only your D, I would say speak out and be strict and serious about this with xW. You have an obligation towards your D to protect her and although you may not be effective at all times given the circumstances, you owe it to yourself and her to, at least, state your disapprovement and objections about ANYthing that your D is exposed to that could/can hurt her. Keep calm and do what you have to do. This is not about revenge, it's about doing what you think is right for your D. Always here, XXX K
My D told me the other day she would stab her heart with a knife if I were to marry another man...
