Thanks cotoffgard. How are things in your situation?
I know it will be a long road to recovery for us. In a lot of ways I have thrown my hands up in the air even if it doesn't come accross in my postings. We did have the confrontation last Tuesday when my W was finally caught and the affair was brought out into the light.
I just feel I've been so angry and resentful of her and her family that I question whether I should even give her another chance and if she'll come back even if she breaks it off with this guy.
I know it doesn't matter until the time comes and I need to be the best me I can be in the mean time, but it is hard.
