I would have done the same as you - if for no other reason than courtesy. She contacted you. I look at it the same as if she called and you answered the phone.
Like wdid said, what is happening with her really doesn't matter - it is what is going on with you that counts.
Keep it up. Glad things are heading in the right direction for you.
LIS
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