Sounds like you are doing really well with the detachment. I just read up on your sitch. Don't know about the mental issues but if she is not taking meds now and you notice a difference then maybe she really needs them to function normally.
Sometimes I think my situation is the worst but then I read what you all are going through and I don't know how you can be so strong despite all the extra heartache and extra problems. Having this BB group really grounds me and makes me thankful for every single blessing that I have.
MC, you sound like a great dad. The kids are lucky to have you.
Sometimes I think, maybe this is the opportunity to find someone who deserves my love. Do you think that? Maybe I can find a better dad for my kids, someone who really appreciate them for the great beings that they are. Someone who is willing to invest their heart and efforts into them. Am I being too stubborn for holding onto something that's rotten? Sometimes his problems seem insurmountable. I AM getting better and stronger and trying to be a better person. He is acting more irresponsible than ever. Is this a sign that I should be reconsidering everything. How do you know when you should just throw in the towel?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
