Pnt: I am also sometime afraid of the changes my h show me... and i think he notes my changes too...!!... this is totally normal... we both and ou both are different bc the crisis, bc what we had lived, bc the growth... I think that what i am afraid most is for returning to the back ugly habits and missing all this new wonderfull changes... but yes we need to focus on the positive... thinking that anything is for sure in the future... that we cant control what will happen in the future... and we need to learn to live knowing that risk we all have in our R... learning to accept it without fear, and knowing we will know how to handle any situation, break or rupture, as we had shwn it in the past... so, live the presen, enjoy it, trying to make it better... and thats all... i am learning too... i am working too on that, is difficult after an A, is difficult after all the hurt, but not impossible... andrea
