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Wow Nlt!!! Your H's sitch just becomes more and more interesting. He's still running, searching for happiness.
I'm so glad you have been busy for the last while and not dwelling on this as much. There's nothing you can do about it anyhow.


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Yep, that is what he is running from, himself. China is a bit strange don't you think? Maybe he went for the Olympics and forget they had already happened????? LOL, you know those forgetful MLCer's!!!

Honestly I don't think he will be out of the country long. It is a different world over there! How did you find out anyway?

Have fun with the CMA. I wished I could be there!!!!

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Yep, that is what he is running from, himself. China is a bit strange don't you think? Maybe he went for the Olympics and forget they had already happened????? LOL, you know those forgetful MLCer's!!!

Honestly I don't think he will be out of the country long. It is a different world over there! How did you find out anyway?

Have fun with the CMA. I wished I could be there!!!!

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NLT you are so clever. I do have to ask how you knew he moved to China? I find that all so interesting. I am sure he will be back soon enough. Like Snodderly said it is a whole different world over there.


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YR & Glam,

Thank you for checking in on me!! As far as how I found out, I'm kind of sneaky!! I use my cell phone a lot when I'm working on these awards & I have several musicians that I have to call saved in my contacts, there are about 3 of them that have the same first name as my H so one day I called his cell number by accident (that has happened before in the past prior to D & all this mess) well, the voice mail said that his last day with the company he worked for was on Friday Oct. 24th. So, I blocked my number & called their home number, it had been disconnected with no forwarding number. Then I blocked my number again & called her work number & they said she no longer worked there. I pretended I was an aquaintence & asked where she went & they said to China with her H.

Thru all this whole mess last fall, I done a lot of "clever" things! Sneaky but he was not telling me the truth & I had to find out & I did. The only thing I regret is that I did not see his face when he found out that I knew about her. He was in the house with me for 6 weeks after I found out & before he knew I knew about OW. One of those times that he was telling me how bad I was, which he couldn't come up with anything that bad, when I would ask him to tell me the truth, he would say "there is no one & I'm tried of you accusing me" at that point I wish I would have said then who is OW, I would have loved to have seen his face. My lawyer was trying to catch him in a lie & told me not to say anything to him but I wish I would have now it could have made some things different. Oh well, I can't think about the past.

I just hope & pray he will be back soon!

The CMA's are wearing me out this year, I'm having to make some decisions that I don't usually make so I hope it will turn out all right. I have to be there at 10am starting tomorrow & probably won't get home until at least 10pm & then the night of the show it will be later than that. My dogs are going to have to cross their legs! Poor things!!! But I know they will be all right. If I do get a break I'll try to come home but normally there is not much of a break. Hopefully they put my name in the credits again this year, they have only done that the past 2 years & I've worked on this show for 18 years.

Thank you both for your support!! I wish you were here too!!!!

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Hi Addie,

Thank you for checking on me!!! My H's sitch is very interesting isn't it? I also really think he is running from himself & like you said searching for happiness.

I'm just trying to think positive, work on forgiveness & do what I have to do right now.

Thanks again!!!

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Nlt,
It's good you are keeping busy. Hope your day wasn't too hectic.

As far as MIL's calls, if it were me, I know I would be curious to find out why she had called. Could you call her telling her you noticed her number on the caller ID and were just wondering why she had called. If she gets nasty with you, you could quickly end the call. Just a suggestion.


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I'm exhausted!!! I'll try to catch up with everyone soon!

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can i share a secret? i got to see a picture of nlt and she is gorgeous!!

nlt, hope you have a nice day.


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MWG,

You are so sweet!!!! Thank you so much for the compliment!!! That made my day!

My friend found wedding pictures of my H & OW on line. I wasn't going to look at first but I had to. It made me feel really weird & upset at first but then I looked at all of them & she really looks OLD! She doesn't look like his type at all, she is heavier than I am & everything about her looks fake. He looked bad too, had a weird haircut & a purple tie, he would never wear purple. Knowing him the way I do, his smile was so fake, I've seen the real smiles & I've seen the fake ones & this was fake. She really has him brainwashed. Oh & she was wearing a long WHITE gown with a veil. Now, that looked like something a 20 year old would wear & besides that, she has already been married 3 or 4 times so WHITE???? My friend had found where they registered also just like a young 20 year old couple would do.

Just so strange, this is not him at all.

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