advice needed....

wife is in another state with her mom visiting family this week. happens to be another guy there she met about 5 years ago, nothing physical, but a lot of pillow talk through email.

anyway, when we got together, she basically chose me over him, and they haven't talked for 3 years. she told me tonight that she texted him, and they are going to meet up this week. she hasn't seen him for 3 years, told me I shouldn't feel threatened, I have nothing to worry about (she said "I promise") and said she is content with not wanting a relationship with him. I know she wants to work on things but my wife is of the type where she craves attention likes its going out of style. I don't know if this guy is married or what, but my wife is, and she has a child from me, and another on the way from someone else......I don't know how much of this story she is going to tell the guy (she isn't really showing much yet)

how do I handle this ? I can't stop her from seeing an old friend.


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
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