Quote: His positive changes are freaking me out. Is it just that I have to get to know him again? When we talk as friends, I feel fine. It's just when he starts being loving that I feel weird.
Yup. You have changed and he has changed. But now that you have changed your perception, how you see him is different than what it was before. I kind of like to think that we need to recalibrate our thoughts to fit in with how we NOW know our Ses...and this can be scary. So, yes, I'd have to say you will have to get to know him again...as how you see him through your new eyes. And he has to do the same.