Thanks so much for your understanding and your comments about moving on. That's what my best friend is saying also but I am finding it hard to move on without him. I am doing alot to improve myself, my inner core, my emotional wellbeing and my appearance. The result is that I am not in a panic anymore nor am I hinging all of my everyday decisions on him and what he would think anymore. But I just can't give up the idea that he won't be my H anymore. Is it too silly to have some hope? I am hoping that one day we could reconcile after the A burns out and his MLC settles down. I know it's a possibility that MLC may not be gone for a long time but I am sure that the height of the romance in A will eventually fade, as do ALL relationships.
I am sorry your wife was hurting you and seeing other people. I don't know if it's worse that she sees two rather than one 'love'. Glad you are seeing MC and that (s)he is supportive. I have not been perfect, I have had my moods but no one should be put thru this, least of all by someone who promised to honor, cherish and protect you.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
