I had a thread in Newcomers called 'I thought I had the perfect marriage'. It's about time to come out of the safety of that forum and move myself to Infidelity.
Thanks to all my friends who visited me, consoled me and encouraged me in the last few months. Especially big {{{hugs}}} to Tawnya, TxMom and Keysblew for your advice and open hearts. I hope I can keep up with my old friends and make new ones.
Story so far: Mid 07 found out abt H's infidelity thru STD, H claims ONS. Forgave and tried to move on. March 08 found out H is having A with co-worker, H said been going on for only two months. I am not so sure. H moved out April, trying to DB and detach and GAL. Thinking H is going thru MLC most likely and the 'grass is greener' symdrome. Weekly visits home but he is avoidant so no R talk. I did all the wrong things the first few months, cry, beg, threaten, chase, all to no avail. Now getting stronger and stopped all that behavior. Trying to find my true self and live that life I want to live. Have not give up hope 100% but know H is deep into A. Hoping one day he might just wake up to the havoc he has created and see the beautiful me, the one he fell in love with.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
