Sandi's in Piecing and it's getting better

[jay]

S2 I just registered but I have been reading the BB for several weeks. I have found hope from your posts.

My H got a good report on his test about his heart. It did show a restriction and I was concerned it would mean another open heart surgery, but they think they can take care of it with medication.

I hope the meds will. The ones I am taking for my heart failure have worked well for me. I am able to hike up and down hills and able to spend an hour on the treadmill. Just before they found out my problem I had to stop several times just to get to my car in the parking lot.

I still can't keep up with my W when she joins me for a walk. I feel bad that she is not getting much exercise when she does. She claims that one of pills affects my memory. I think the stress from the R has more of an effect.

If he cooks, it takes him all day.....etc.

I have the same problem. It seems to take me a 1/2 hour to make my lunch, 3+ hours to make a batch of salsa and a large batch of chili takes all day.

But one thing is for sure and I can say without a doubt in the world......I have no feelings for OM what-so-ever. So, you see, everything that I was told in the beginning when I came on board......was true. I had the "grass is greener" disease.

That gives me hope that my W is starting to feel that. At first she said she always had her NET friend (OEA) to turn two. Several months ago she said it had been over a year since she had communicated with him.

I glad I found you again on the BB and pray that things keep getting better for you and your H.

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Me 56
W 48
S and D in college
Married 23 yrs
W emotionally detached 1996?
OEA late 2006
INILWY early 2007