Man..you guys are asking some deep questions that I am not sure I know the answer to. I am trying my best to have a good plan in place so I never feel stuck or trapped. He stopped the affair because he was caught. In my opinion, he is staying in the marriage because his family would be so angry ans disappointed in him. When it first happened and I told him we were through, he said he was going to move out of state because he could not live here with everyone knowing....yeah, whatever. Is it too routine to say I am trying to accomplish happiness? I want to share my life with someone who has goals, who works continually to be a better person while enjoying life, who wants to make love to me, wants to talk to me when I get home from work, and someone who keeps his word. I am not looking for anyone or wanting to be divorced to date or remarry. I just know what I have now is not enough for me. I am not sure how I would ever trust him again. He played husband the entire time he was fooling around. I always thought of him as my protector and now I am protecting myself from him. I have not told a single person in my family. My daughter knows because he told her but I do not think she has told anyone. My family is very vocal and I cannot see them keeping it a secret from me. Four of my best friends know but that is all. If we do divorce, it will be a big surprise for everyone.
Last edited by Kelly23; 11/14/0805:44 AM.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
