Quote: Perhaps the best way I can deal with this is to ask him to agree to a date night each week. That way, we have a running plan that's set, and he can do whatever he needs to do to feel independent the rest of the time.
Whacha think? Anyone have suggestions?
that's an excellent idea...one I've presented to my h who sounded a tad similar when he first decided he might like to "try"...funny though he seems to be to busy to schedule one night with me...and now wonder why my last post sounds like it does.
I like you often would wait and wait for h to make time for "us"...got to be a tad pathetic...during our seperation I even told him...let's set certain time asside for "us" a "date" night..time that I know we will spend together...then the rest of the time you can do as you please and I can do as I please (within reason of course) that way I wouldn't be like a puppy at his feet waiting to get pet...I would know when it was comming and could look forward to it.
If you can get him to agree to scheduled time that would be great!!
