Living with a spouse still in an affair....and proceeding with a divorce....is absolutely the most painful experience ever. Her admitted "love" between them....and her desire to have full custody and everything she "deserves" wears a person down........


The absolute disrespect, lack of any trust, and any thoughts of any honesty from them turns me into a very bitter WAH. I want nothing more then to punish her for what she is doing to me and our family.

Last edited by carpenter54; 11/14/08 04:53 AM.

H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)