I read your story about Thanksgiving.....What are you going to do? Spend it with your whole family or with H?
I'm kind of in the same sitch but my H is going to spend it alone.
Makes me sad.
I had been talking with my parents about it and I said I wondered if he was going to spend it alone. (Before he told me). My Dad said kind of jokingly "Should we invite him?" And my Mom blurts out a big "NO".
I was like "Well, I'm glad I wasn't planning on asking if he could come". Not that I was - it would be very akward.
Part of me wishes I could ask him to have it with me at our house, just us two. My family would be very shocked! I don't think H would go for it - he wouldn't want to take me away from my family....
I know that he chose our sitch, but I can't help but feel sad. For both of us......
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