Just my $0.02, but I think it's finally time for you to throw your hands up in the air and admit to yourself that you can't control any of this...not her...not the OM...not the D proceedings. I think you've spent more than your fair share of time obsessing over what she's done, doing, and will do than concentrating on yourself. You have to have faith that this affair will fizzle and break down eventually, but be pragmatic and not expect it to happen today or tomorrow. Set your target date 6 months from now if you need to. In the meantime, meet new people, make new friends, join a few meetup groups, etc., and get you and your head out of the sitch as much and as often as possible. I really sense you're running on fumes now, and you're starting to hurt yourself.
C'mon, bro. You can do this...I know you can!
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
