Just take it one day at a time, and do as I suggested in my earlier post. I don't know what else to say to you as his journey is not done and this journey takes a very long time. And he needs to get thru it on his own.

Don't even think about him testing you or how your actions are taken. Just let him be. Those are the four words that are the most effective in this MLC.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19