Sorry to burst your bubble but yes there are mean people out there that think that way. It is called abuse, in your case verbal and hopefully not physical. So strange that our society doesn't think much of it if there aren't bruises and broken bones to show the pain.

Yes DB saved you and your kids from the horrible man your H has become.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory