Your H is smoking something if he seriously thinks he can wrest full custody away from you. He's either trying to bluff his way into more concessions from you, or he thinks he can somehow prove you unfit -- not likely by any stretch.
The interesting thing is if we were going through the D a year ago, he might have been able to get full custody. You know I was seriously depressed, a total basketcase at the time of the bomb/my brother's brain tumor and at least the 2 years before.
I didn't realize it until recently (which I'm glad b/c it would have been a lot of pressure), but DBing, (therapy and ADs too) didn't save my M, but probably will help me save my custody of the kids. I was seriously depressed, and if I had stayed that way I'm guessing H was planning on me staying that way so he could get everything he wanted (or thinks he wants anyway). There is a part of me that even wonders if he was verbally abusing/namecalling me to ensure that I would be a mess, lose custody, etc. but surely no one could be like that I would hope.... Karen
