I thought of something else I wanted to share with y'all.
My monkey told me again, that he knows I love him more than anyone else loves him, that he's abused my love and that he has been thinking that he could delay making a decision...but realized that he could lose me by the time he decides that he wants me after all.
He also mentioned that he had no fear of losing me to another cause he knows how much I love him. So, my fears about my EA bothering him were groundless.
What a relief to know...and thank goodness I didn't bring it up!