He liked dinner, he loved his cheetos and macadamia nuts...his favorites! Loves munching on those.
We had some really great intense talks.
We slept in the same bed together and he held me throughout the night.
He says he wants to wait on sex until we are living together again. That it's too emotional and isn't ready for it yet. So, no hanky panky yet!
I peeked through his Divorce Remedy book and saw that he had read through the section on depression and MLC based on the dog eared pages. Not a SINGLE dog ear in the infidelity chapter! That was the only snooping I did. I had a few opportunities to snoop in his wallet and his suitcase, and I didn't!!! I felt a little twinge, but it wasn't that hard. I'm becoming a better person!
I promised him I'd respect his privacy.
He talked about his one major problem with us was my mis-handling money.
I showed him my budget and talked to him about how much I had learned from my dad. My dad is a tax attorney who just this past year became a bankruptcy attorney...he's taught me tons.
My husband asked me to teach him what I've learned when we start living together!
At one point, his roomate, Karensa called. Said my monkey's cat, Sheen, who was originally my cat, (but she loved monkey, so I gave her to him when we seperated) was really sick. Karensa sounded hysterical and like she was crying. I panicked because I still love and miss Sheen.
When my monkey picked up the phone to speak to his roomate, she laughed and said Sheen was fine.
He hung up in anger and I exploded.
I told him that was very cruel. He agreed with me, and comforted me while I cried. He said he thought his roomates did it because they didn't want him to move out. And he was really angry and said, "I'm definately moving out now!"
So, I had a chance to release all my emotions from our talk, he had the change to comfort me. And his roomates have become the persuers, pushing him away!
He left Saturday afternoon. He emailed me Sunday. He said, "I enjoyed spending time with you this weekend! Also I am looking forward to our "new" marriage, I also dropped my mom a note telling her I am looking for a job in *your town* and plan to move back in with you and make it work! hehe."
The fact that he's told him mom, updated his resume means this is really going to happen!
