As far as the questions about the changes and the baby steps.....

I can notice the small changes, but I haven't set too many goal and am not really doing much work on R right now. I am patiently waiting for W to let go of the anger.....Looks like she is.....

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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