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(((Karen)))

Try to let the L do all the talking if you can. Stay focused on you and the k's.

Take care. And take the high road as often as you can.

I always try, and succeed most of the time. I'm a little worried about my glass-chewing L though. She sends nasty emails and letters to H's L, she's equal-opportunity rude to everyone I think. Do you think I should say something to her Monday reminding her I have to have an R with him for the next 9 years so would appreciate a fairly civil tone if possible? It's tough b/c I know my H is kind of the same personality as my L so don't want her to go too soft, but I don't think that's gonna be a problem! Any thoughts on this???? Karen

(((Karen)))
I have had to put a leash on my L. We are in respond mode for the most part. And respond in a calm tone - fairly civil. I think my L wants to go crazy on her but I won't let him - yet.