Word in today... Pam has elected to stop at legal separation and not sue for divorce. Word was also in that she is just too scared to talk to me. What that means my lawyer did know (and apparently didn't care to ask.) Small steps are big deals.
The bad news was that my lawyer thinks that we could have a legal separation in weeks, if not days. I believe that I should slow down the process, even to the point of not agreeing to the terms in any Separation Agreement and forcing the issue into court. What are your opinions.