Am I doing things the way they should be done? I have cut off all contact w/ W since last Tuesday, Nov. 4th after she tried to call and explain why she was at OM's place.
We still see each other Sunday night to exchange S. The exchange has lasted about 30 seconds. No speaking, except to S. Before OM was truly exposed she tried to ask about Halloween and complimented me, but I blew her off.
Right now, she just wants this D over with, wants to move on, etc. She is putting off conciliation which is required before the divorce can happen. I also think she has not gone to the a class required by the state for those divorcing with children.
I feel like I am doing the right thing by actually doing a good job of going dark and detaching, but in another way I feel like we are so far apart how can we ever get things back on track if that situation happens?
