My L told me that I better hope my W gets a good L; because a crappy one makes the process more expensive by putting up BS motions.
Yep, although H is a L too, so should try to rein in his L, should know what is necessary or not. But big-time denial and I'm guessing his L promised him the moon and everything he wanted. My L did the same saying I'll be so much better off I should file for D right away. Of course, when it's done, I think no one will be the winner in this I don't think.
I did document this stuff. My L says she will ask me the kind of ?s about H's involvement at deposition or court and I will be truthful. But I think some of it is he said/she said. I think H sees himself as an involved, loving dad which he has often been at least before the A the times when he was home.
My d8 was fine with him moving out b/c she says she sees him more now than when he lived with us. (He spends 2 hours on Tuesday and usually Friday night and returns them sometime Saturday in the afternoon.) I'm not too worried about this, no matter what happens I'll be ok and if H crashes and burns I will be there to help out hopefully. Karen
