"Most people can survive infidelity and can, in fact, make their marriage stronger once they work through the issues infidelity has brought into their lives."
Has your opinion about the chances of a marriage surviving through infidelity changed from what you may have thought before it happened to you? Possibly went from "no way", to "maybe"?
I remember when I was dating my husband that I believed if he ever cheated on me, then it was over. There was an ex-girlfriend in the mix and the whole thing was a mess.
Well, he married me and THEN told me he'd cheated.
I felt like he'd tricked me into marrying him.
Sigh.
Lots of bad feelings around that issue.
But now with the seperation, that whole issue has been on the backburner for a long time. Sometimes I still wonder if he's done it again, but for the most part I try to thought stop.
If he has done it again, I know I'll sound like a coward, but I don't want to know.
I think we could work through it, it's just I have a lot on my plate right now. Don't want another issue!
