Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to set that person free. This will allow them to look at what is broken in their life and fix it. We are detaching out of love for them and love for ourselves. It is toxic to be with someone who is irrational and unloving.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11