Well he would have to qualify on his own to get the bills in his name only. Bank of America is being really difficult about it and now that ex stopped paying bills of course he won't qualify. I was the primary on the accounts, I think because way back then I was the primary bread winner. Then the kids came along and I worked part time because it actually saved us money.

Not trying to make excuses, we made poor choices and had bad luck. We did this. We relied on credit to get by and then it became a habit. Now the piper is playing and he wants to get paid!

kat

PS...though ex is helping to make this all come to a head right now. funny how he makes a choice and we all get pulled in with him.


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory