I guess in preparation for upcoming hearing and trial? I'll find out more Monday I guess (hope). H wants full custody, no alimony (I've been a sahm for the past 9 years), me paying H child support, basically changing everything we've been doing with the children for the past 15 years. It's not gonna be pretty. I'd rather not attend any of it, but will for the kids. I just focus on the kids, the kids.... Karen