PnT, Thanks so much for your welcome to Piecing. I have not had time to read your other threads, but from this one it definitely sounds like you guys are on the right track.
You are both understandably treading lightly. It seems that the most important theme of most of the folks here at Piecing is reestablishing trust.
Good luck. I think I probably need to reread DB as well now that I'm over here...thanks for the reminder!
Not sure if I would be excited or scared if my H said he wants to read DR. I don't think he will...he knows I'm on this BB but he's very respectful of my privacy, and I think he thinks of this as "my" thing even though I haven't said anything to discourage him from reading DR or being here.
But I digress...anyway, best of luck to you and I look forward to reading about more positive developments!