okay, after lowering my blood pressure significantly an dgoing through some of the "staying solution focused" threads I have re-kindled some hope.

I took note that I let this get to me way to easily and reacting incorrectly again in ways that come off negatively.

I will attempt an apology tonight, albeit I'm not the one who started throwing out the rotten comments. I need to remember to keep level headed and remember the "I" rule, like "I really get frustrated when you casually speak of OM" instead of "you really frustrate me when you speak of OM". I found myself really slacking off on that one.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11