A good friend of ours told me about your situation today, and I came over here with coffee and a bat. I mean a hug.
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As much as I can I'll try to keep kids with me, it makes me sick to think of them around those two. She does cook for them and fixed s5's hair, for the time being looks like she is ok around them, it's just the lack of values and shame that make me not want have kids around them. There are worse things, I know, at least he did take kids out when he had them, so I'll try to look at things in the best positive light I can.
Oh it is this same story, that is going to make me lose it on these half assed men and someone thin will play me in the lifetime movie.
You have a wonderful faith. Pray that your babies are guided to know the difference between right and wrong. Pray that God guides your tongue in speaking with them. Let your anger out here, as you do. Shoot you know the drill. It has been long enough.
You are a wonder with your babies, and it is so very hard to see what we thought would always be instilled by both parents, become a shamble on their part.
I Know you would never bash your X in front of your children. You are full of class while he is full of well, you know.
Detaching is again in order mi amor.
Detaching in itself is super easy when it comes to detaching from them, well in my case it is.
It is detaching from the pain they cause our children, and the disruption they cause, that is the hard one.
I am sorry just for all of it.
Back to Zumba, back to shaking your rump like it's no one's business, and back to shaking him and all of his antics right back out of your life.
You are in my prayers mami, you and those babies.
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God