Worse before Better?

[Sophie]

Okay...I understand.

If we change to mediation, does H have to file another motion, or can he drop the papers? How does that work?

How does it work that people file and it just sits?

I know which lawyer to call, I haven't been able to yet, in these last few hours.

It makes me extremely anxious and nauseous to hurry up and get a lawyer 'yesterday'...when I can't do that at this immediate moment.

I feel like I'm going to end up in jail! I know I won't but, I've never had to deal with the law in any way shape or form.

I'm a goodie two shoe citizen!!

I just spent most of last week writing amended tax forms because of H's side job. I don't mind doing taxes, I have always done them. I had to learn a bunch of new tings for his 1099. H signed them the night we talked about money. Next day, he files.

I don't care that he doesn't recognize me in any way for anything I do...it's his ignorance and loss.

It's just hard to accept the negativity and rejection from someone I really get along with.

Anyway....back to deep breaths.