I told my husband the reason I was quitting my job was because I found myself making excuses to be around my friend more and was afraid I was going to cross the line.
I went to a celebration of my friend and his wife's new baby, and before I went asked my husband if he wanted me to not go. And I asked if he was jealous.
He said he was jealous, but said he trusted me to go.
He also said that he didn't know if he would have the strength to quit his job if he were in a similar situation.
So, I still don't know if that's why he has times when he thinks of something I've done and he gets mad at me.
It's freaky how I had forgotten all this stuff and now it's coming back to me.
Would a better approach be for me to tell him that I'd like the chance to apologize for things that have hurt him. And to ask him to tell me when he thinks of something and gets mad?
I'm not sure if I should approach this issue or wait for him to bring it up.
Would it even be helpful? I know I'm trying my best to focus on the present, perhaps I should allow him to do the same?
