Okay...I see...I didn't feel like I vented, I just stated what I knew and understood from the D papers and that I now HAD to get a lawyer. But, I won't say anymore.

I am thrown a little bit though by his response to my 'vent'

"H replied: that is the way it's written for a couple of reasons. but you knwo that probably won't happen. is there any prayer of mediation?"


Isn't it too late for mediation? Besides costing less, what is mediation? Do I have to agree to a D in order to meet with a mediator?

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home