I agree, Woog. His problems are not my problems, unless/until he asks me for help/support and then it will be my decision whether or not I want to approach the drowning man...
At this point I have taken more of the approach of "Wow, drowning must suck....hope you figure out how to get out of the water cause I'm not comin in..."
Grown-ups are capable of helping themselves. I will take care of the little ones, THEY need my help.........
