Sophie,
Okay, you backslid, venting at him...now pick yourself up, ignore his communications for the moment and GET AN APPOINTMENT WITH THE LAWYER ASAP!! Do not discuss this with your H until you have had a chance to talk to L. If you can possibly afford a DB Coach, do so; it will be some of the best value for your money you have ever gotten! Be kind to yourself, come here to vent, and let him flap in the breeze.

Peace and blessings,
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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