Hope you feel better and I agree w/ Ali that more communication is what is needed. I hope the MC can help you to kick-start that process.
Also, I think Jeff is spot on in saying H will be slow at first b/c he is scared. Do your best to allow for patience right now b/c that is what is needed.
Hang in there and limit your expectations a bit and just let things happen. Time and patience are your keys right now.
