I'm so very pleased your H is finally coming around...and reading DR to boot! That's kind of funny, personally, because my first post on the BB was about how my W (in full-fledged WA-mode) was reading my copy of DR when I was trying to fix things... Ahh...brings back memories.
In any case, you've been so patient through all of this junk. Just give him time to let DR sink in. He's turned the corner and has had some recent revelations, but it will still take time. He's nowhere in the place where you are and it will require some catching up...so take it easy on him...
Anyway, my .02 given my own experiences about pushing a little too hard at the beginning of my W's turning point.
