I agree, my H did lots of drinking, every night when I first found out of the A and around the kids etc... I told him same thing you can't drink even when the kids are asleep, what if something happened and you didn't wake up to help them.
I would pay attention, closly and everytime he has the kids reiterate that you would appreciate his respect and not drink when he has kid duty... they come first in this situation... who cares what he thinks about you... you would never forgive yourself if something ever did happen. if you start to notice a pattern then have another talk, out of love like LE said, with him... watch and listen
BG - love the scripture... boy that is my husband too... thanks
Sorry this morning started off so bad... and take the advise you give me... when we are up it is great but we need to get to a point where our H's moods and behavior don't determine our moods or behavior... not easy. My H is the same and it is becasue the are confused, and this double life can't be easy.... I wouldn't want it.
hang in there - praying for you
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
