I know not cool either. I lost my head a bit and fired some shots I shouldn't have, but given the circumstance of lies and no shame for this whorish behavior really hit hard.
Had a 'legal meeting' for lunch and everything is pretty much screwed right now and I'll just have to deal with life this way for atleast the next 16 months, how lovely. Any way, any form this goes to court right now it will be thrown out in a heart beat.
Well, maybe through that time I can re-kindle my desire to straighten things out. Right now, I'm beyond hurt and need to go back and relect on any reason why I'd want to keep this.
Will have to talk to her tonight about Thanksgiving plans. I'm making it known right at the start that's all the conversation needs to entale. I DO NOT want our kids spending a weekend there exposed to her & OM with nowhere to go and get away from it if the situation becomes too much. And, need to know if I'll have, one, none or both for the actual holiday.
I really need to find a way to not be consumed by her lies when I know they are.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11