I was posting on this board the day that I was served with D papers. I wasn't expecting the papers at all so, in a panic, I ran to the board to ask for advice.

Being the impatient type, I couldn't wait for an answer so I called H and questioned him about it.

When I went back to the board, the unanimous advice was NOT to contact H.

In my case, calling H worked only temporarily because H did drop the D action but it didn't stop the roller coaster ride.

It's hard to say but I guess my advice would be to see if H contacts you about it. Then you can calmly ask the questions that you need to ask.